Sometimes a situation may seem disturbing and talking about it positively seem like a lie, but it is not true. There is beauty and opportunity in everything if we become willing to look deeper into the meaning of life that has presented us with such moment.
In the past I have found that each time my view point made a situation negative it turned out to be very positive. Our inner self knows our next step so much better than our reasoning does. Trust what you are given even when it looks so dark and impossible to understand under the correct light.